30 Hours in Transit: Africa Day 1

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We’re in Africa! We’ve been looking forward to this trip for nine years, and we’re finally here.

Kirundi word of the day: Amahoro (hello)

Fun fact: It takes 30 hours to get from Glendale, Arizona to Bujumbura, Burundi.

Actually, it should take longer than that if you schedule long enough layovers– I don’t recommend sprinting across Chicago O’Hare Airport toting six carryon bags and an angry preschooler to catch a connecting flight.

Little Man was happy for most of the trip 🙂

If you’ve been following for a while, you might remember a previous post announcing that we’d be in Kenya for six weeks last spring. Well, that didn’t work out. But the Africa vacation to Burundi and Tanzania that we’re taking now is turning out to be much better than trip to work in the hospital would have been!

Helping with the luggage

Ben was born in Burundi and lived here until he was four, when his family was displaced to Tanzania during the war. In fact, he lived in the house where I’m writing this– his father built it on the family’s mission station 30 years ago and now his oldest brother lives here. But being born in Burundi gives Ben more than just a passport that makes border agents do a double-take. It’s also given him a lifelong connection to a place that will always feel like home.

It took three hours to get through the Bujumbura airport

After our long trip to Bujumbura, Burundi, we finally managed to extricate ourselves from the airport to find the people who would pick us up. To my joy, I saw eight family members waiting for us in the parking lot, where they had spent hours so they could be sure to greet us! We haven’t seen some of the nephews in six years, so our drive to their home a few miles away was a happy reunion.

Bujumbura, Burundi

Keep following to hear about the rest of our Africa adventures! We’ll be here for a whole month traveling between several locations.

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Africa Day 1: 30 Hours in Transit

Africa Day 2: Crossing Burundi

Africa Day 3: A Dowry Ceremony

Africa Day 4: A Burundian Wedding

Africa Day 5: Gisuru School for the Deaf

Beautiful Boyce Thompson Arboretum at a Glance

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As you may have noticed if you follow me on Instagram, I’ve been spending as much time as possible in and around the Superstition Wilderness this year! I love that area– the history and mystery, the natural landscape.

Read my articles about the Superstition Wilderness on World Footprints!

Plants of the Superstition Wilderness

When I’m outside, I like to know the names of the plants I’m seeing and what they can be used for. Ben would probably like it if I would stop eating things I find in the wild, but if the apocalypse comes, I’ll be one of the few who knows how to prepare mesquite pods 😉

Boyce Thompson Arboretum

I’ve been doing a lot of plant research online, but it’s just not the same as getting out and learning about plants in person. So, for my birthday excursion, we headed to Boyce Thompson Arboretum, a huge garden of desert landscapes complete with hiking trail!

The arboretum is located at the foot of Picketpost Mountain (or, Piglet Wiglet Mountain, as my three-year-old has dubbed it), a formidable peak that is not possible to summit with a child and a dog. And yes, I know that from experience.

A natural stream runs through the gardens, bringing life to the desert landscape. However, you won’t just find Arizona’s flora here–there are also exhibits from desert environments all over the world!

Boojum trees are named after a word Lewis Carroll invented for The Hunting of the Snark

Why visit Boyce Thompson Arboretum?

If you’re in the East Valley region of the Phoenix Metro Area, the arboretum isn’t too far of a drive out of town. And it’s definitely worth it! Those who enjoy the Desert Botanical Gardens in Phoenix will love a getting a different angle on local vegetation.

Boyce Thompson Arboretum is a great activity for people of all ages and mobility levels. While not all the trails, including the loop trail, are accessible, you can see most of the gardens from paved paths.

Little ones will love the kid appeal in the children’s garden. It provides an opportunity to talk about shapes and colors.

Where’s your favorite place to explore the natural world? Do you like arboretums or just getting out in nature? Leave a comment and let me know!

New addition to my jungle

Fantastic Clean Books for Teens

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If you’re looking for clean books for teens, you may have discovered that it can be hard to shop for YA lit these days.

The bad news is that it’s currently trendy for YA novels to portray teens engaging in risky behavior with unrealistically mild/nonexistent consequences.

The good news is that there are still YA authors out there who are dedicated to creating fantastic stories of all genres — without the graphic sex, glorified drug use, and unrealistic relationships. And the best part is, many of them still deal with the challenges teens face, from suicide to parent struggles to an ache to help the hurting.

So if that’s what you’ve been searching for, you’re in the right place! And if you don’t mind YA books with grittier content, I bet you’ll still enjoy these 🙂

If you’re looking for clean adult books, check out my post here

Unblemished Trilogy

Immerse yourself in the twists and turns of parallel worlds — reflections — as heroine Eliyana discovers her true identity in settings beyond her imagination.

Check out this gorgeous cover

The Unblemished trilogy comes to you from author Sara Ella and is now available in PAPERBACK!

Seeing Sara at a recent book signing

I also recommend her novel Coral, a Little Mermaid retelling focusing on mental health. As someone who has lost a family member to suicide, this is a topic close to my heart.

AND . . . let’s not forget Sara Ella’s upcoming release, The Wonderland Trials! If you’re subscribed to my newsletter (sign up in the sidebar), you’ll be one of the first to see the upcoming cover reveal and hear more about this book, which is coming in 2022! I’m so excited to read this one.

Calculated

Imagine the story of Joseph . . . set in modern times. . . with a math genius . . . in Asia.

Are you intrigued yet? I read Calculated by Nova McBee for my book club and LOVED this fictional story of courage and compassion as a young woman pursues freedom from modern-day slavery for herself and others.

Fractured Tide

Fractured Tide by Leslie Lutz is similar to Lost, but better. As in, no evil smoke people, just a freaky island, a terrifying sea monster, and a broken time machine that loops the same day over . . . and over . . . and over . . .

Now That You’re Here

I’m partial to books set in Phoenix. And let’s be honest– that’s a really short list. Now That You’re Here by Amy K. Nichols and its companion from the other main character’s point of view, While You Were Gone, is a the story of a boy who switches places with his parallel-universe twin. Will he choose to return to a war-torn reality where his parents are still alive? Or live as an orphan in a world that is safe?

The Hagenheim Series

The Hagenheim Series is a collection of fairytale retellings that tie together various classic stories. Since I’ve only read one of these books by Melanie Dickerson, I asked my friend Elli to weigh in, and she says:

“These books are all deliciously intriguing! I simply could not put them down when I started. I love that they all include Christ-centered themes.”

You can visit Elli’s Instagram here

Dear America Series

I enjoyed the Dear America series as a teen. All of them are written as a diary by a young women in some period of American history. I desperately wanted them to be real journals, not fiction! I did get a little tired of the somewhat predictable threads of romance after reading several of these, but overall I enjoyed them. A great option for teen girls who loved the American Girls series.

Romanov

This month, I read Romanov by Nadine Brandes. 10 out of 10! I recently attended a virtual writing seminar where she discussed her philosophy toward YA lit and approach on writing books for teens, and this immediately went on my “To Be Read” list. If you love all things Anastasia Romanov, you can’t miss this one!

Solo

Solo by Kwame Alexander is one of my favorite books for teen guys (although girls will like it, too). This novel in verse follows the heartache of a 17-year-old adoptee as he grieves his mother’s head, struggles with his rock-star father’s addiction issues, and searches for identity. His search for his birthmother brings him to Ghana, where he and his family — both natural and adoptive — are able to experience forgiveness and the start of the healing process.

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Christian Fiction Books for your Christmas Gift List

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Books make the best Christmas gifts! If there’s someone on your list who already has everything, you can always get them a new book. Here are some of my favorite Christian fiction books that make great gifts.

Read my post on clean giftable books for teens!


Romance

The Red Door Inn by Liz Johnson

This year, I started reading a lot more romance. The Red Door Inn is one of my favorites! Every book in this series made me cry. And want to visit Prince Edward Island.

The Masterpiece by Francine Rivers

This a story of love and redemption between two people desperately trying to repair their broken lives.

The Hearts of Oklahoma series by Tina Radcliffe

This small-town series follows a family of four siblings who each find love close to home, whether that be at the vet clinic or on their ranch.

Contemporary

The Joy of Falling by Lindsay Harrel

This novel healed a wounded place in my heart. This story is about two widowed sisters-in-law who decide to run an New Zealand ultramarathon in memory of their husbands. The problem? The women have nothing in common. Can they overcome their differences to support one another through their grief, and maybe find hope along the way?

The Pelican Harbor Series by Colleen Coble

This series tells the suspenseful adventures of a policewoman on the hunt for a murderer. . . and the truth about her childhood in an abusive cult.

Historical

The Curse of Misty Wayfair by Jaime Jo Wright

If you like mysteries and historical fiction, you’ll love The Curse of Misty Wayfair. It’s just dark enough to make you shiver!

Sunrise at Normandy Series by Sarah Sundin

Be swept into the past through this World War II trilogy of love and war.

Love historical fiction and romance? Don’t miss your chance to order A Dance in Donegal or The Lady of Galway Manor and receive an extra Christmas gift! You can read my interview with author Jennifer Deibel here.

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Biblical

The Chosen by Left Behind author Jerry Jenkins

This book is based on the TV show of the same name. It gives the life of Jesus new vibrancy!

By the Waters of Babylon by Mesu Andrews

This novel shares the tale of a Jewish exile to Babylon at the time of Daniel and Jeremiah.

Ruth and Naomi by Tori Sorenson

This novel is a fresh retelling of the famous story. After reading this, I have a much better idea of the culture and history behind the book of Ruth.

What’s your favorite Christian fiction book you’ve read this year? Comment to share!

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Interview with Historical Romance Novel Author Jennifer Deibel

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Some books have the potential to make your whole year. Over the summer, as an escape from the oppressive Arizona heat, I headed into a Barnes & Noble to browse the fiction section. When I came across a historical romance novel set in Ireland and written by a local author & autographed, I thought, Oh yes, I need this. To be honest, I rarely impulse buy.

Well, I impulse bought.

Then I posted a picture of my find on Instagram and about died of fangirldom when Jennifer Deibel, the author, commented on my post.

Spending time with Jen (right) and local author friends Sarah, Erin, and Sara

Fast forward several months, and I’ve been lucky enough to call Jen my friend. I’d love for you to meet her, too, and hear about her NEW Irish romance, The Lady of Galway Manor, which will be releasing in February 2022!

Hi Jen! What was your inspiration for The Lady of Galway Manor?

I love the legend of the Claddagh ring, and the tensions between England and Ireland are always coloring things, even today. And I began to wonder what it might be like if a British woman was apprenticed to an Irishman in the jewelry shop. And the story idea grew from there.

As events take a dangerous turn for Annabeth and her family during the war for Irish independence, she begins to see that the bonds of friendship, love, and loyalty are only made stronger when put through the refiner’s fire.

Which character was the most fun to write?

I really love all of them, but I think Seamus—the hero’s father—was my favorite to write. He’s quirky and funny, loves his tea, and is wise beyond his station.

How have you incorporated favorite Irish locations, traditions, or experiences into the book?

Oh yes!! We lived in the Galway area for four years, so I tried to work in some of my favorite places. Some, like the Claddagh area of the city, are the same. Others, like the fish and chip shop, have been changed a little to protect the innocent 😉 and allow me a little more creative license. The jewelry shop itself was also a huge inspiration and still exists and is in business today. But, I changed the name and location in town slightly, again, so I could have a little more creative freedom within the story.

Thanks for stopping by to meet one of my favorite people! I hope you enjoyed getting a glimpse into her writing process and hearing a bit about her own experiences living in Ireland.

If this sounds like a book you’d love to read or gift, you’re in luck! At the time of writing, Baker Book House is offering 30% off The Lady of Galway Manor and 40% off A Dance in Donegal as well as free shipping.

P.S. – If you haven’t heard, Jen and I and a few of our friends are doing a giveaway for book lovers, including a historical romance novel, YA fantasy, middle grade fiction, contemporary romance and bookish goodies! It ends December 4, 2021, so be sure to enter ASAP 🙂

Click here to throw your name in the hat.

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Soaring in a Prop Plane at Flying Cacti!

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When you get an invitation to go up in a prop plane, you take it.

I recently finished writing a novel manuscript that involves a character making an emergency landing in a small plane. And that’s all I’m going to tell you about it for now—sign up for my newsletter in the sidebar if you want to hear more in the future!

Thanks to the flight elements in my novel, I watched a lot of Youtube and read a lot of content on how to fly a plane.

Turns out, all those buttons and the names of various parts of airplanes are kind of hard to get a handle on when you’re just piddling around online.

So, I wrote the scenes as well as I could and then reached out to John Correia, one of my professors from college who also happens to have his pilot’s license, to see if he’d look it over and make sure I had it right.

Sure, he said. I could do that. Or, I could take you flying. 

Um, yes please.

To say I was excited would be a major understatement. I’ve been on a lot of commercial jets, but never in a small aircraft.

Breana Johnson and John Correia with a Van's RV12 prop plane at Flying Cacti in Glendale, Arizona

The weather was perfect on the day of the flight. I pulled into the parking lot of Flying Cacti at the Glendale Airport and looked around. Not only had I never been on a smaller plane, I’ve never been in a hangar. Actually, I think I might have been in one at Luke’s Airforce Base when I was a kid on a field trip. Obviously I don’t remember enough of that for it to count, though.

Before Takeoff

John opened the hangar door to reveal a blue and white Van’s RV12. Wow! I couldn’t help but run my fingers over the glossy exterior. I could already tell that the glass dome covering the cabin was going to give incredible views, and propeller on the nose just begged to take us for a spin.

John whipped out a checklist to show me all the things he had to check before taking the plane up. It was a long list. As he pointed out, if something goes wrong with your car, you pull over. If something goes wrong with the plane, you fall out of the sky. I had been a little bit nervous at the idea of being way up in the air in a small aircraft, but after seeing how thoroughly everything had to be checked, the trace of nerves I had vanished.

During this process, it was cool to get to ask questions about how the plane worked and what every little thing did. For example, the static ports, two tiny pinholes in what looked to me like screws, use air pressure to give the pilot information about speed and altitude. I never cease to be amazed by engineers and their ability to create and pay attention to all the details. Or to create a flying machine that can carry two people and only weighs about 800 pounds.

Once all the checks were done, John pulled the plane out of the hangar and we climbed in. For my book, I needed to know the steps to start the plane and taxi down the runway, so he talked through everything as he went. When the propeller started whirring into a blur, I could feel it pushing air right into the cabin through the vents that serve as air conditioning.

My heart started beating a little faster. I was in real prop plane, about to go up in the air!

Breana Johnson and John Correia in a prop plane at Flying Cacti in Glendale, Arizona

Flying!

John taxied down the runway. We waited for a couple of other planes to take off, and then he powered the plane forward, lifted the nose, and suddenly we were up in the air. Just like that. I felt a huge smile stretching across my face. Wow, the views were way better than they are in a jet with the giant wing slicing through my view out the tiny window. I could see the whole dome of sky above and the earth rapidly falling away below.

We flew above Phoenix Raceway, over the top of the Estrella Mountains, and into farm country I didn’t even know existed behind the mountain range. Below us, brown pinpricks wandered around—cows grazing in the sunshine. The Gila River snaked through the region, feeding the various canals that turn the landscape green despite the desert beige that stretches in all directions beyond the Phoenix area.

Prop plane at Flying Cacti in Glendale, Arizona

In the Air

Since the episode in my story involves a non-towered airport, John took me to Buckeye Airport for a touch-and-go landing, meaning the plane landed on the runway and took off again without stopping. I got to hear all the pilots talking to each other through my headset, communicating in the absence of a tower to coordinate landings and takeoffs.

It’s kind of hard to understand all the different voices through the headsets, which is why pilots use the NATO phonetic alphabet to reduce avoid confusion when they communicate. It sounds like some sort of secret code. Charlie Oscar Oscar Lima!

Van's RV12 control panel

I had a lot of questions I wanted to ask about the way prop planes work, what would happen if the pilot stopped flying for a couple minutes, how to read the dials on the control panel (although this plane had a screen instead). And I did eventually manage to find the answers to all these things. For a while, though, the scenery and experience was so overwhelming that all I could do was look out the window and take it all in.

Eventually, it was time to head back to Glendale Airport. I searched the landscape for the freeway and the Cardinals stadium to get a sense of location. Wow, we had gone a long way, even though it didn’t feel like it! Back over the Estrellas we went, and soon the landing strip came closer and closer.

Landing the Prop Plane

“Every landing is a crash,” John told me. “The question is, how well are you going to control it? A good landing is one where you can walk away from the plane. A great landing is one where you can fly the plane again.”

Every time I fly, I dread the sensation of touching down. Turbulence doesn’t bother me in the least. Landing? Ugh. Usually, I grip the seat, hold my breath, and tense up in preparation for the jolt of hitting the ground. But I didn’t want to look like a moron while sitting next to a pilot, so I did my best to brace myself invisibly.

The familiar sensation of dropping in a 1000-foot elevator twisted my insides, and then the wheels touched the landing strip . . . and it was fine. I guess there’s a big difference between the feeling of landing in a 400,000-pound jetliner and the feeling of landing in a two-person plane that weighs less than half a ton!

Back at Flying Cacti

John taxied the plane back to the hangar. We rolled past a party in one of the other hangars (the party being nine seniors in lawn chairs) and got a glance at someone’s fancy two-seater, and then we were pulling off the headsets and climbing out of the plane. The owner of Flying Cacti came by for a chat, and one of the employees stopped his truck for a minute to say hi, giving me a sense of the community there.

Prop plane at Flying Cacti in Glendale, Arizona

What an experience! I had always thought of flying a plane as some kind of scary and mysterious process. I figured I had a better shot at getting sprinkled with Neverland fairy dust than grasping the concept of how airplanes move in the air. Although I never took physics (marine biology is way more fun, guys), the basic concept sounds pretty crazy. You’re fighting one of nature’s most basic forces, gravity, by harnessing different forces: thrust and lift.

What I realized from my time in the air is that, yeah, being a pilot takes a lot of skill, from understanding the NATO phonetic alphabet to keeping tabs on all the processes happening inside and outside the plane. But there’s also a sense of wonder to being in the air, controlling a flying machine, seeing the world from a whole new angle. There’s a lot of science involved, but really, science is just another word for magic.

Create A Productive Writing Atmosphere

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You’re seen the photos on Instagram. Cute desk spaces in neutrals with just a pop of color, an author’s laptop next to a latte in an indie coffee shop, an antique roll-top covered in flickering candles. You know, all those spaces where writing comes naturally, where the novelists and bloggers and bullet journalers sip hot mugs of inspiration while beautiful words flow from their fingertips.

Confession time:

I used to roll my eyes at those photos and pride myself on my ability to write anywhere, anytime, with any level of noise in the background. Busy university library? No problem. Neighbors having a party upstairs? Totally fine. And did I mention my desk looked like this:

Yeahhhhh. Could I write? Sure. But it was not great. In that environment, with my workspace being divided between writing, grad school, and online teaching, I did manage to keep up a busy freelance writing schedule and write my master’s dissertation. But I realized I was also opting to write on my bed a lot, which studies have shown is disruptive to sleep. Or, I’d set up at the kitchen table.

After a while, I realized that there was a connection between my desk looking scattered and my brain feeling scattered. Is that just me? Anyone else?

So then I started trying to set the mood. My writing time started with tea, a snack, and a Youtube music playlist.

But you know what? All that took time, which meant I had to spend effort and precious minutes to get going every time I wanted to write. Because I’m pretty sure my headphones were on an escape mission, and I spent too much time trying to find music I liked, and snack prep is a hobby all on its own.

Then I realized something: if I wanted to write, I needed to put myself in a chair and start typing words.

Environment does matter. But how much did it matter for me? And how much does it matter for you?

Finding a balance

Like everything in life, I think finding a writing environment– or any creating environment– is a balance. I think that atmosphere does matter to an extent. For example, I have a really hard time writing if I can see unfolded laundry from where I am sitting. My brain just jumps into that laundry pile and doesn’t want to come out until all the towels are all lined up in the hall closet. And when I can’t move my mouse very well because I keep bumping up against random piles of clutter, that’s not great, either.

But maybe don’t make a hobby out of curating a writing space. Unless you’re an interior designer. Or that’s what you really enjoy doing in your free time. But definitely don’t fixate on it as a way to procrastinate your writing work.

What works for me is a reasonably tidy desk and a glass of water. (Or a can of Bubly. Give me all the Bubly.) I also prefer to work when other people in the house are either gone or sleeping.

What works for me might not work for you. But here are some ways you can figure out your ideal, productive writing environment:

Declutter Your Desk

Do you need a dedicated writing space? I don’t, even though I have one, but maybe you do. Do you like the background noise of a coffee shop or the mall? Or do you prefer the quiet of your own home?

I think it’s helpful to learn to write in both kinds of spaces, but let’s talk about your own desk. Or table. Or coffee table. Or wherever you have space to write.

The most important part of a desk is that you can fit a laptop on it and sit at it and type. That’s all you need from a desk.

But it’s helpful if clutter isn’t driving you nuts.

One of my favorite bloggers, Rachel Norman from A Mother Far From Home, gave this tip in one of her newsletters: When you see something that needs to be done, just do it. Clean it up. Put it in the sink. File it. And keep a basket in every room where random stuff can go until you have time to put it where it belongs. Then, your space will always feel clean.

So I tried it. Wow. Ok. Mind blown. Maybe my mom was right all those years?

The result? A desk that is always reasonably tidy. At least, it never looks like a file cabinet exploded on top of it anymore. And even better, I no longer have to spend dedicated cleaning sessions for out-of-control pile-ups. Thus, more writing time!

Here’s what my desk looked like this morning, without any prepping for this photo. Not perfect, but definitely clean enough to focus well.

So here’s a question for you: How much clutter is too much for your brain? And how can you make some small lifestyle shifts to keep it at a manageable level?

Design Your Space

Unless you’re doing a lot of Zoom meetings and you need a nice background, this probably a nonessential. I mean, as far as putting pen to paper (metaphorically, of course, unless you’re one of those cool people who still handwrite their stuff), you don’t need your work area to look pretty.

I don’t need my area to be pretty. But I do like my area to look pretty. I didn’t care for a long time, but I think I shot myself in the foot by reading up on color theory and all that. So I added a snake plant, which makes me happy, and a vintage doily from my great-grandma and a couple of candles we had, and voila. Pretty desk.

The wall art is a photo and fabric from the first round-the-world flight. I rescued it from a bulk trash pile!

If you’re really looking for productivity, if you want to finish that novel or write all your wedding thank-you notes or sketch out your memoirs for your kids, then this space is probably not something you should create for the sake of Instagram. You don’t want to spend all your time snapping photos and making reels when you should be writing.

If you like to do those things, don’t do it during your writing time. Block out your writing time and forbid yourself to so much as open your camera app or social media. Don’t water the plants or arrange the accent pieces at all during that time.

So here’s a question for you: Does the aesthetic of your writing space matter to you? What are some ways you can make it a happy place to be? Do you need to set boundaries for yourself so the visual appeal of your desk doesn’t take precedence over your writing?

Decide on Smells and Sounds

Smells and sounds seem to be an important part of the sensory experience of writing. At least if you take Instagram seriously. Come on– who really needs that many candles, Fancy Bookish Writer Lady With An Awesome Antique Inkwell? (Can you read the envy dripping from my laptop?)

But for real. I do find it intimidating when I see pictures of people writing by the light of candles with wax scented like the pages of antique books; in the background, I imagine a tuxedoed violinist drawing forth baroque masterpieces from the strings of his instrument…

The sound of surf and the smell of the sea are my favorite!

And then there’s my house. Which smells like dog and old bananas. Unless the dishwasher is running, under which circumstances the kitchen smells strongly of Drain.

Actually, I have been doing better in the smell department, thanks to my oils diffuser. But I never really pay attention to the smell of my house when I’m writing.

The sounds, now… that used to take up a lot of my time. Searching for headphones, adjusting the volume. Skipping Youtube ads, searching for the right sound on my Amazon playlist. And boy, I can’t stand lyrics when I’m writing! Too distracting… skip that song.

At this point, I’ve just cut out music entirely. I might try again if I am writing an epic scene someday and need some video game music to inspire me. Because seriously. Video game music is amazing.

So here’s a question for you: Do you like to enhance your writing atmosphere with scents and/or music? Is it helpful to you, or is it distracting you from your real purpose: writing? If you want essential oils and a playlist but you find the prep cuts into your writing time, how can you streamline the process?

Plan your Food and Drink

As far as I can tell, there are two sides to problems with writing refreshments. One is getting in a bad habit of eating constantly while writing (hello, M&Ms!) and the other is forgetting to eat. Yeah, I do both.

My excuse for just not eating is that Albert Einstein forgot to eat lunch a lot and therefore it’s a sign of genius. My family would prefer my genius to be less crabby and lethargic.

At some point, I got into a bad routine of starting my work day immediately and not eating pretty much anything until the afternoon, at which point my blood sugar would plummet and I would grab some sugary snack to make it to dinner.

Please don’t tell me I’m an idiot, because I already know that.

Obviously, not eating is bad for your brain and you can’t do your best work if you’re starving. Or even if you’re munching on dry corn flakes all day to stave off hunger.

And substituting junk food is also not great, especially if you’re like me and feel like crap when you eat sugar or caffeine.

Having a child forced me to follow a better meal routine, thankfully. But I still have a lot of days when I don’t eat lunch and then snack on weird stuff in the afternoon while I write (stale marshmallows, anyone?).

What I find works for me is making myself a healthy meal and eating that while I write. Because I am going to write. I may or may not eat. So if I’m doing both at the same time, at least I won’t be a hangry monster by the time my husband gets home.

The flip side of not eating at all is snacking too much while writing. Which I also do a lot, a habit that started when I was trying to stop biting my nails (didn’t work, by the way).

I find that chewing gum helps, or having something without too much sugar to sip on, or making a air-popped popcorn to substitute for skittles. Actually, silly putty and other tactile toys can help, too, if the problem is being super kinesthetic and just needing something to fidget with in order to focus.

And then, of course, there’s the need to have a drink on hand while writing. I’m not a coffee drinker, so I don’t really get the whole coffee-lover thing.

I know, I know. Coffee is life. It flows in your veins. We can’t be friends anymore because I don’t drink coffee.

For whatever reason, I have better writing focus when I have something to drink. I like sparkling water or tea when I write. Fancy Starbucks frappes are also on my list of favorite writing companions. And obviously drinking water all day every day is good for the brain!

In my experience, the best way to eat or drink when writing is to plan what I’m going to have in advance. Then, I’m not hungry or thirsty, I’m not hopping up to go hunt through the pantry when I should be writing a scene, and I’m not sitting there thinking, “Ok, how many pieces of licorice did I just eat? I need to stop. I really need to stop.” I’m thinking about writing. Like I want to be.

So here’s a question for you: What are your food and drink habits while you write? Do they make you feel crappy? Do they distract you from writing? Do you need to create a better routine that will help you get more done and feel better in the process?

Here’s What It Comes Down To…

The point of writing is to write. Right?

I’ve found it’s good to assess what I’m doing every now and then to see if it’s working. Strip it down and see what I miss. See what is better off gone.

If you’re a writer, or a student, or a creator, or work a desk job, or whatever, why not assess this for yourself? What habits make you sharper, more productive? What makes you frustrated, slows you down, distracts you?

Everyone is different. Find what works for you, and do it. Do what helps you sit down. Open your laptop. And write.

And write.

And write.

🙂

Surfing in Saint Martin: My Favorite Spots

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Today marks the first day of the Tokyo Olympics! And that means the first year of Olympic surfing has begun. Woot woot! Surfing is probably my favorite sport, both to watch and to do. So I’m pretty stoked at the idea of seeing this become an Olympic sport.

Lest you think I’m some super cool surfing fiend, let me add a quick disclaimer: I am not great at surfing. Yes, I got up on my first try. Yes, I walked from my apartment to the beach with my board under my arm like a boss on the regular. Yes, I managed to figure it out on my own without a surf lesson. But as you can see in the photos, my board was the size of a tiny whale. And, as you will never, ever see in the embarrassing Go Pro videos Ben took, my form was less the stellar.

Yeah, maybe I should have taken those surf lessons…

While we lived in Sint Maarten, Ben and I went surfing with friends. A lot. In surfing season, it was at least once a week, despite the demands of being a med student at American University of the Caribbean.

Loading up Matt’s island jeep with our boards

Although Sint Maarten isn’t famous for its surfing, it does have some good surf spots, and we managed to find all the good ones (and a few very dangerous places, which I will not share. We are probably lucky to be alive). Here are some of our favorites!

Mullet Bay

Mullet Bay Beach was a five-minute walk from home. Yes, I know– we were living the dream. For real. Especially since I still haven’t found a beach I like better than Mullet, with its surfing, snorkeling, cliff-jumping, sunbathing, swimming, sailing, kayaking, skim boarding, and fishing opportunities. I definitely miss it, now that we live in the desert!

Surfing Mullet Bay is only good in the winter months, when the surf is choppy. Other times of the year, it’s smooth as glass– perfect for scoping out the parrotfish, cuttlefish, and blue tangs that live in the reef.

Surfing here makes me a little bit nervous because it’s close to the beach and tons of people way better than me pack together and compete for the same waves. If it was busy, I’d usually just look on and take photos. It’s a great place to watch, since you can see surfers close-up from the beach or the rocks.

Plum Bay Beach

Our favorite beach to surf is Plum Bay Beach in the lowlands on the French side. It’s popular but not too busy, meaning I had a chance at catching some waves most of the time, even if there were a couple of other people there. You do have to swim out a bit, and getting past the smaller breaks to the surfing-sized waves was tough with my bigger board. But the rides were pretty long, and the waves are just the right size for me!

Our friend Jake lived in the neighborhood next Plum Bay. Jake’s from Hawaii, and he’s incredible to watch. He helped us improve a lot. And may have kept me from crashing into rocks and dying a few times.

Le Galion

Le Galion in French Saint-Martin is by far the most popular surf spot in Saint Martin. Even though Hurricane Irma demolished the beach in 2017, the surf shop, SXM Surf Club, is still there. Actually, when we went back in 2019, it was the only business still there. Gone were the colorful umbrellas, burger shop, and paddleboard rentals. I don’t know if anything else has been rebuilt (comment if you know!), but just the surfing is worth a visit.

SXM Surf Club rents boards, offers affordable rides out to the break, and gives lessons. We never took a lesson, but the instructors were so nice and sometimes volunteered tips for free when we were out at the same time as them. I think if we go back, I might take a lesson for the fun of it! We did pay to ride the ferry out a few times, but usually we just gritted our teeth and made the 20-minute swim out on our own.

This spot is usually pretty busy, but it’s also huge, and people tend to be nicer about taking turns and letting slow newbies have a shot at the waves. Which is a really good for me. I only ever slammed into one person on a packed afternoon (oops). If you bring your own board when SXM surf club is not taking people out and opt to take the long swim, you’ll have more waves to yourself.

Guana Bay

Ben only surfed Guana Bay once with Matt and Jake, and I just watched. The waves break right on the beach, and it didn’t seem like a good day to break my neck. If you’re really good and have a smaller board, it looks like a fun place to go. I prefer the Guana Bay Hike on the other side of the hill– takes you right to gorgeous tide pools!

Petit Cayes

I’m not sure I’d necessarily recommend Petit Cayes for surfing, but Ben and Matt did go a couple of times. The concept is cool. You have to drive all the way up to the northern part of French Saint Martin, past Pinel Island, and park at Grandes Cayes. Then you hike around the mountain, with its stunning views of Tintamarre Island and beautiful geological features; crunch over thousands of washed-up coral skeletons; and find yourself on the most stunning, pristine white-sand beach you have ever laid eyes on.

Since few people make the long trek to Petit Cayes, it’s free of trash and crowds and feels like you just discovered a desert island. On the horizon, the thin line of Anguilla peers up from the waves. It’s a wonderful place just to sit and think.

The waves here were too big for swimming every time we went, so Ben and Matt decided to try to surf there. The reason I say I don’t recommend it is that the current is pretty strong and Ben felt like it might not be a great idea to make it a regular surf spot.

Cupecoy

Cupecoy is another beach that we could walk to. A few times, we walked there and I stayed up on the cliffs while Ben went down to surf. We also paddled there from Mullet once when the beach was busy– for fun, and to avoid having to walk through the nude beachgoers.

I think Cupecoy is really scary because the wave break right into a rocky outcropping. I didn’t feel confident in my ability to steer my orca-sized surfboard well enough to stay alive, so even when I went out, I preferred to sit behind the break and watch the sunset. After all, what’s better than watching the sun dip below the Caribbean Sea?

It’s hard to believe it’s been four years since I’ve been surfing! Ben went with SXM Surf Club when we visited the island in 2019, but not me. Next time we’re in Sint Maarten, I’ll definitely go! For now, I’ll be happy getting to watch the best of the best compete for gold in Tokyo. Go USA!

And now, for your entertainment, a sneaky photo of Ben walking into American University of the Caribbean with a surfboard so he could run straight to the beach after class:

Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art

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With the heat of an Arizona summer in full force, our hiking trips have ended until September. However, Phoenix has a lot of budget experiences to offer besides its many outdoor offerings! Did you know that Phoenix-area residents can visit many of the Valley’s museums for free? The Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art (SMoCA) is one of these.

How to Visit for Free

When we lived in Detroit, I could walk in to many museums without paying just because of the address on my drivers license. Although this isn’t the case in Phoenix, you can still find ways to get tickets without swiping your credit card.

There are two ways I know of to get in to the Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art for free. One is to go on a Thursday or the second Saturday of the month. I believe that at the time of writing, you are supposed to make a reservation. I can see why– it was pretty busy the last time I visited, even though the museum is still practicing more social distancing than most of the other places around town.

The other way to get in free is to snag a Culture Pass at one of the libraries in Maricopa County. If you’ve never used a Culture Pass, these are red laminated strips displayed near the door of any library in the county system. You have to take the Culture Pass strip to the front desk and have a librarian activate it for you, and then you take your receipt to the museum within seven days for entry. Each Culture Pass is worth admission for two. Depending on the time of year and the attraction, Culture Passes go quickly– so plan on arriving when the library opens if you want to be sure to grab one!

You do need a library card to get a Culture Pass. This means you need to have residency in Maricopa County. If you’re just visiting, the free days are your best bet!

Visiting SMoCA

The Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art is located in Old Town Scottsdale, Arizona. You can park for free in the garage behind the museum. Thank goodness for that– parking in the sun at this time of year makes getting back in the car feel like climbing into an oven!

It had been about five years since I’d been to SMoCA, and I was excited to see what had changed. I was also excited to show it to my friend Jenny, a New Zealander who recently moved here after nine years mining gold in Mongolia.

(Yes, her life as is cool as it sounds– you can check out her travel blog here!)

SMoCA is a small museum with just a few galleries, but it does change exhibits frequently. The first time I went, several years ago, I was unimpressed by a display of American cheese squares laid out in a grid. Come on, people. American cheese is barely food, much less art.

This time, however, the museum displayed beautiful and thought-provoking modern art as well as contemporary twists on traditional art forms.

SMoCA Exhibits

During our visit, the Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art showcased several cool exhibits. Our favorite was a fantastic weaving display featuring human-sized baskets and a modern take on traditional tapestry weaving. The artist, Diedrick Brackens, was inspired by the Biblical story of Moses to create baskets that people can float in. It included videos of the artist trying out his beautiful basket boats!

I’ve never seen tapestries like this done on a traditional loom. It must take a lot of skill to take photos, edit them into monochromatic computer images, create a weaving pattern, and execute the design flawlessly. So cool!

Things to Do Near SMoCA

After our trip to the museum, Jenny treated me to a lunch at Los Olivos, a delicious Mexican restaurant next to the Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art. The building of the restaurant is also a work of art, with interesting stained glass windows bathing a room all in blue, fish tanks bubbling in the corner, and unique architecture.

Since SMoCA is located in Old Town Scottsdale, there are also many other places to dine, drink, and dessert. One of my favorites is Sugar Bowl, an old-timey ice cream shop once frequented by Bil Keane, creator of Family Circus.

If you’re looking for something to do on a hot Arizona day…

…then the Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art is a great place to go! You’ll be sure to enjoy modern art infused with emotion and meaning from creators in the Southwest and all around the world.

Shaw Butte Trail

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If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you know that I travel. A lot. Not always for fun, sometimes we’re just moving—and we’ve moved 12 times in our seven-year marriage! But with the pandemic, we’ve really slowed it down. In fact, I haven’t been out of the country for over a year, and barely left the state. Still, I’ve been able to do some exploring right here in Phoenix! Although I’ve spent over 20 years of my life here, there’s still a lot I’ve never seen, especially when it comes to hiking trails.

A couple years ago, Ben got me a book called 60 Hikes within 60 Miles of Phoenix for Christmas. It has been our goal to hit all 60 hikes—even if some of them CHEAT and are 75 miles out of town! Not surprisingly, the 15 hikes we’ve done have been mostly close to home.

One of my favorites so far is a hike that Ben and I did during his last day off: Shaw Butte. Although we lived ten minutes away from his hike for three years, we never did it. Now that we’ve moved across town, I can say it’s still worth the drive!

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Shaw Butte is apparently one of the most popular hikes in Phoenix. While I was doing Camelback and Piestewa over and over, other outdoor enthusiasts were throwing Shaw Butte into the mix. It’s actually quite a bit easier than either of the other two, but it is a bit longer, at four miles.

My favorite part of this hike is that you get a completely different view of Phoenix. It lines up just right with Piestewa Peak and Dreamy Draw so that you get to see layers on layers of mountains—something that’s not common to find in the middle of urban sprawl!

My second-favorite part of the hike are the ruins three-quarters of the way to the summit. Although ancient ruins are definitely more interesting, the shell of this 1960s building is still pretty cool. Especially considering that what used to be a restaurant patio is now the ideal lookout spot for viewing downtown Phoenix (and snapping some shots for Insta, let’s be real).

The story behind the ruins is even better. Sixty years ago, a restaurant called Cloud Nine overlooked what was then the northern part of Phoenix. Patrons were shuttled to the fancy nightclub using the owner’s vehicle, since no real road was built and there’s only way up and down.

I have to imagine that Cloud Nine wasn’t exactly to code. Maybe that’s why it burned down in a mysterious fire. And unlike the mythical bird our city is named after, it never rose from the ashes.

If you’re like me, and were clueless about Shaw Butte, or if you’re just visiting Phoenix, put this hike on your to-do list! Not only is it a good workout and an excellent photo op, but it’s also a unique view into the history of Phoenix. If you stand very still, you may be able to imagine the ghosts of night club patrons milling around the patio with voice of Bobby Darin floating from the record player.